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#998673 05/06/02 08:23 AM
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Pepper;
I just want to say that you were very perceptive and fair here. I think people like Twilight deserve all of our help as well...so thanks for being principled and not judgemental. We need more of that in the world.

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Twilight,
I'd just like to add to what's already been said to you about your R w/om.<p>Apparently, you are feeling the addictive nature of your A. Yes, HE is too, but why aren't you worrying about YOUR feelings? Instead of being so concerned about how he is doing, how HE is feeling, what HIS W does or doesn't believe about your A, why not concentrate on YOU?<p>It sounds like you've been through a rough time of it yourself, and my own feeling is that you still want HIM around to help YOU "heal." This is tough stuff for all of us, BS, WS, OP - ALL AROUND. I think it's in your best interest to start to deal with YOUR stuff by yourself, learn to stand on your own 2 feet, and LET HIM GO, and never look back. Whatever he needs to do in order to finally "admit" to this to his W, himself or whatever, will be HIS burden.<p>Yes, he may have been there to help you when it was really bad, BUT, (And I want you to know here that I believe EVERYTHING happens for a reason!) - BUT, now it is time to LET GO of him, and stand on your own. You are stronger, you are wiser, and I BELIEVE you can do it!<p>May God Bless you and your daughter.<p>[ May 06, 2002: Message edited by: lupolady ]</p>

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oops..sorry

<small>[ September 07, 2003, 05:59 PM: Message edited by: Patient1 ]</small>

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