Here's the latest stupid thing I did. Thinking I could handle it, I went thru old pictures from the past three years (that's how long A lasted). Since OW is family, there are pics from family gatherings, etc. of the 2 of them. (BTW, why I thought it was normal for them to be so close is beyond me. How f***ing stupid could I have been?)<p>Anyway, in all these pictures...you know how you can just tell by looking at someone's eyes that they are happy and in love? Well, that look is there. Hubby and I had a family picture done together about 2 years ago with D, and he has this deer in the headlights look. But he looks happy and in love with her.<p>I've been plan A-ing and he's been trying, and it's been goin' kinda good. This just kinda set my attitude back. How do I deal with the fact that she made him look/feel so happy? And all while I was there and around and he could have chosen me but didn't?????

Just bumpin' myself up...

dani<p>Just a thought...have you talked to him about what he was getting out of the A? Specifically what she was doing that made him so happy and in love? If not, try to get this information from him and then do it. Then maybe he will have that in love look for you.<p>Regretting