I don't know what to tell you. I'd say that if he lied and you are sure about that then you should address it before it goes any further. <p>I am so sorry you are going through this. What happened this weekend after we talked? How were things when he got home?<p>I would definitely make my presence known at work. Who says a wife can't come see her hubby? And Selket dear... no one should have a problem. You've always worked with him. Why should this be any different?<p>The answer he gave you... "You wouldn't have any fun". Isn't that a typical "shy away from the real issue kind of answer"? As if he's looking out for your best interests? I know you and I have both seen this before. <p>Is he spending time on the computer at home? If so, get that spy software and install it. It will tell you every keystroke he uses. Find someway to see what he's up to. Even if you can't afford a private detective, take a cab and wear a hat/wig. See what he does for lunch, right after work. Do you have the cell phone password?<p>I'm not trying to make you think anything more than you already think. You know I am trying to find an alternate explanation for all this. <p>My dear, I love you and am here for you.<p>Clear