Hi, <p>I wanted to share one of your posts on this thread. A few of the dads here have the same idea as you and some even had the assistance of SILs. <p>So here is your post in an effort to corral their insight. <p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by onwardandup:
<strong>Please any thoughts on talking to my SIL.... Here is a draft of letter I was going to send her.<p>Dear ****,
I just wanted to drop a note and say hi. I’m not sure if you know all of the situation between Amy and me, but I think you know most of it. I am only writing to let you know that I do care deeply for Amy and still love her a lot. I want nothing more than to make an honest attempt to save my marriage and be a wonderful husband to your sister. I have been very focused on the things that I did to contribute to the problems in our marriage and I am committed to being a better person whether I am with Amy or not. I think she sees my efforts but I do not know what else to do. <p>Unfortunately, at this time Amy is not willing to take the steps to see if we can have a relationship together. I realize I can not change the way she feels or the things that she is doing that are creating a larger gap between us. I just hope she realizes that the gap is getting bigger not smaller. The marriage councilor stated that she had to make a decision before he would work with us. I asked her that night about the decision and she did not respond. I have not brought up the subject again.<p>I am only writing to let you know how I feel and hope we could talk. I will be at home all day on Saturday if you want to reach me or you can leave a message on my cell phone</strong><hr></blockquote><p>L.
