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Dear XOW .........(personal therapy)
#999758 05/08/02 01:14 PM
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Dear XOW,
A year and a half ago you told my H that he was the "Love of your life", your "Soulmate" and that you would gladly leave your H for him. Appartently my H did not feel the same, My H's "self made depression" made him vunerable to your "charms" and "attention". Realizing almost immediately that his Heart was with me and not you my H put all his efforts into repairing the damage the two of you wrought. And all of you "antics" at revenge andf contacts only make my H realize you for the manipulator you are...<p>So am i supposed to say "Thank You" for interfering in my life? No way.
Instead i am happy to rub it in and say <p>I WON!<p>The XOW doesnt read here that i know of but i just needed to share my letter with someone
i feel better thanks all for listening.
Re: Dear XOW .........(personal therapy)
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I know you want to be able to scream at your H's XOW, but don't downplay your H's role with excuses. How do you know this woman wasn't depressed herself, and was being self destructive?<p>No one ever "Wins" in these situations...
Re: Dear XOW .........(personal therapy)
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FMWB,
in no way am I making excused for my H and solely blaming the OW. The OW was in a bad marriage with her own H having an affair. Im sure she was depressed probrably still is if the rumors i hear are true. However the stalking, the phone calls, the emails, the drive bys. are all totally out of line. and rather obnoxious adn every time she does something dumb like that H resents her a little more. her own bed of thorns.
Re: Dear XOW .........(personal therapy)
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Yeah, at least you can take comfort in the fact she's now making a fool of herself....
Re: Dear XOW .........(personal therapy)
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Reason I want to thank OW<p>Your post reminded me of this link.

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