Originally Posted by StayingStrong32
Originally Posted by bigkahuna
She talks big but still has a wayward mindset.

If you think you are in recovery, be prepared for a lifetime of cheating from her.

So, how would you define a "wayward mindset", and why do you think she still has one? What defines "recovery" and why do you think I'm not in it? If I'm not in recovery, what am I in?

Denial. You have a serial cheating wife(you know of two affairs-tip of the iceberg IMO). She chose your best friend as a partner(pretty sadistic, wouldn't you agree?). She has had no therapy and has not volunteered for STD testing. She is jerking you around. Will she take a polygraph?