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I know that he has a facebook page, but since he lives in another state, it would be difficult to expose him to his family and friends Yankee, the internet makes its hugely simple. Google his name. Go to intelius.com and plug in his name. It will bring up his name and associated names. Those names will be family members. You can get physical addresses for them for a small fee.
D-Day 2-10-2009
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I exposed from across an ocean. If I can do that, you can do it in a different state.
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Ruining their future plans to introduce her as a poor abused wife who got divorced and then found her hero in OM is absolutely your best shot.
If they have NOWHERE to go, that ruins that fantasy.
How much support did you get from her side?
Do you understand how to Plan A, meet her needs while unapologetically slaying the A?
I'd say you have good instincts because you got off to a good start by keeping it good between the two of you as you exposed.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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Are you sure? When? Are you sure your wife had nothing to do with the divorce? Did he divorce his wife for a different OW? Facts like these can help you show his true colours.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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Threads merged. Please stick to one thread. Thank you.
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