Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Thanks Good2shoes - should I have informed him DD was off sick? Thanks
Best to start with plan B.

Read the 'how to plan B' topic.

Write the letter, state your boundaries, under what circumstances are you willing to reconcile (if you are not willing to reconcile, tell him that). Let him know why you are doing this and what the rules are.

Protect yourself legally.

Did you send your sister the IM link? Send it again, because she is not following the instructions.