Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Originally Posted by MelodyLane
ugh...Do you have a friend, male or female, that is stable and strong willed? The job of IM is really not that hard at all when you do it right.

I dont think its hard at all. I need to have a think! He is very full on and I guess people think its a few messages a week not a few messages a day.

But they don't have to reply to those messages or do anything with them. All they have to say is: "thank you for your message." And only pass on absolutely PERTINENT MESSAGES about visitation and finances. It is not a hard job at all.

You just need someone who has some spine and is not easily rattled. AND that person has to be willing to respct your wishes and not interfere with your Plan B.


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