Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
I am just rubbish at it, I dont think I can do it. I am worried that cutting off contact completely closes the door.

Cutting off contact completely will START the clock. Nothing happens until then. Right now he does not even think you are serious.

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Do you think I should contact IM to tell him not to contact me on phone? Thats the only method of contact now.

Yes, tell IM no contact but also block him.

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
DD who is only 6 keeps saying to me that she doesn't want to stay at DD tomorrow night. She has said it about 5 times.

Tell her to explain to her father that she does not want to go. Don't get in the middle of this.

How are you doing with protecting your finances and getting primary custody?

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)