Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Also started a course of Anti DS today.

Reality of splitting up is hitting me like a train. Getting lots of messages from friends....makes me feel sick.

Pressure is really mounting for me! Isn’t it supposed to be for him, not me???!!!!

Cool, you are over thinking this. It is really not complicated at all. Either he meets your plan B requirements or he does not. His choice but a win for you, no matter what. You get out of a toxic situation either because he has seen the light or because he is history.

Find your inner terrier, you know you can do this.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)