Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
So sick of not having my children even if it’s only for 2 nights per week.

Of course you are

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
BF is now asking via IM to have more time with the children and to talk direct so that we can agree a schedule going forward. He has also suggested seeing a mediator.

So yet more attempts to break your plan B. Your IM should not be sending you these messages. Give IM a boiler plate response to send each time something like this comes in. An extract from your plan B letter would be good.

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
He already has them one night in the week and half the weekend?!

Crying again.

Nothing easy about the breakdown of a relationship. Had you thought about formalising the visitation through your solicitor?


3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)