Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Hi all

Just checking in.

We are all in self isolation here in the UK. Luckily we have the perfect house for it.

Great, maybe get some veg seeds on line and plant them. Children can pick and eat the veg over the summer.

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
BF has made numerous attempts to poke holes in plan. My IM is starting to feel the pressure again. BF has said that we are going to be in the rest of each other’s lives forevever because of the children and is insisting on contact. Also does not like the time difference.

Your IM is still passing on stuff that he should be filtering out. Tell him that you should not be hearing this.

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
He picked the children up over the weekend and came in the house wanting to chat. He dropped the children off another day and wondered round to the back garden and started up his motorbike then left.

What happened to changing the locks?

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
I really feel like I am totally checked where he is concerned and I am feeling so much bettter out of it and away from him. Finally! It has taken me 9 weeks!! I am actually starting to look forward to a healthier future. I can’t believe I endured that awful behaviour for so long.

You will feel even better once you have filled the holes. IM filter and locks.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)