Coolbeginnings I had been wondering about you and your family and am so grateful it sounds like you are all healthy and well. Did your bf meet the terms of your Plan B letter? This is what you had decided you would need to move forward together. Do you still feel that way? He sounds like a bully that has pushed you into a different arrangement that leaves you feeling bad. I don’t think you can build a relationship based on mutual care that way, by going along with this plan. I think you and your family deserve that.

Me 40, OD 18 and YD 13
Married 15 years, Divorced 10/2010