Hi LivingWell

Because one of the thing BF says that went wrong in the relationship is that we didn’t get on. Normal cycle is that we would talk about something if he didn’t like it or disagreed would get angry lose his temper and start shouting.

If I wanted to get my point across then I would have to raise my voice too. At the end of the relationship I gave up raising anything because I wanted to show him that we did get on and I didn’t want to cause a row frown

Also the cycle after the row would be we both would quiet and distant on each other. Sometimes for days and even weeks. He is not just like this with me, it would be with other people too.

I am not afraid of him physically, he has never touched me in the 9 years we have been together.

Last edited by Coolbeginnings; 04/15/20 04:25 AM.