I am feeling more relieved that I tried to have a discussion with him. I was not comfortable at all having him around.

Having these few weeks with no contact with BF made me get old my self back a bit and makes you realise your own self worth again. Him coming back has made me realise that I put up with a lot of bad behaviour as I didn’t really feel like I had a choice.

He didn’t really make much effort with me at all, he did initially to get me to spend time with him, as soon as he did it went back to how it was before.

Now I do have a choice and I know I will be just fine without him, if not better off with the way he treats me.

He has come back EXPECTING us to reconcile, that he thinks he has done nothing wrong and his affair was a result of our poor relationship. He Is treating this period as time to ‘see how it goes’ before moving back in.

Last edited by Coolbeginnings; 04/16/20 01:39 PM.