Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Please help me formulate a plan.
Dr Harley has already given you the first thing to do. Nothing else can be done until this is complete:

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Dr Harley said if you can do one thing for him it is to get him to stop drinking. That your BF should see this as a great act of care for him. That I should tell him that I will stand by his side and do it with him, offer an alchohol free relationship and that BF promises he will stop drinking now, and if he starts drinking again that he enters a rehab clinic. That it is something you do TOGETHER. If he doesn't want to give up drinking then you should move into Plan B. Dr Harley said I should give him his email address.
Have you given Dr Harley his email address?

Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.