Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
I just dont know if I can do this anymore - he is so uncommunicative about ANYTHING - he has not told me once he loves me, he hides me on social media, he has been ambivalent about the relationship for 3 years and I just dont know whether I am coming or going.

I should just not feel like this in a relationship.

Cool, your relationship fell apart gradually over time and it will need to be rebuilt brick by brick. The first step is his alcoholism. Drying out is hard. Dr Harley said to be supportive and kind. Can you do that?

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)