No doubt he will be in touch soon. I will tell him then about rehab. I will follow Dr Harleys advice and tell him that he needs to go into rehab and if he chooses this path then I will be there to support him.

Even if he does do this, there are still too many issues. I am not even sure that they could be resolved by addiction treatment. He would also have to liaise with Dr Harley too, to understand how a healthy relationship works. Even then there is no guarantee and too much damage.

He is inflicted so much pain on me. The affair, the drinking and the drugs. The fact that he rented out a house so near the kids school and all our friends, almost parading our business so 'out there'.

I have just been told that a boy in my sons class has covid so my son, daughter and I will be self isolating for 14 days.