I have text him in the end.

I have told him I will not continue the relationship unless he gets help for his drinking and taking drugs.

His response was bizarrely ‘I totally agree. It is always the blame game with you. Let me know when I can have the children.

I am now In Plan B and I plan to move on.

He has destroyed all sense of love I had for him. I can never be in a relationship with someone who has caused so much pain to my children and I.

The relationship was killed when he decided to give up on me before he even left, when he pursued another woman, when he chose to rent out a mother house and when he decided to keep his house and his family and cake eat without taking the responsibility of family life.

Last edited by Coolbeginnings; 11/27/20 01:02 AM.