Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Why do I always feel that I have done something wrong after facing him like this?

He said we need to talk last night, and then when I rang him and confronted him about the drugs and drinking, he still denied a ever taking the drugs. Did I imagine the remnants of white powder on the side? Did I get it wrong?

My brain is so fogged up I can’t see clearly.
It’s called gaslighting, which is what he has done for so long.

You need to stay strong and go into a dark Plan B and follow living_well’s suggestions.

Do you have your IM? Did you make it clear about rehab?

FWW/BW (me)
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.