Dear BF

I love you and our family so very much.

But if we are going to make this work you need to stop drinking (& taking drugs). You also need to get to the bottom of the addictions and get some help whilst doing this. If you agree to do this then I will support you every step of the way and continue to be a family.

If you won’t stop / get help then we must end things and I will avoid seeing or talking to you.