The key is not the stop and quit. They key is to go to rehab when he slips. But you don’t want to ask for that. Maybe you haven’t been to the attorney yet and are afraid? The attorney usually gives a free initial consultation so your BF won’t know unless you tell him. I understand your fear.

Me 40, OD 18 and YD 13
Married 15 years, Divorced 10/2010