Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
IM told me he is not happy about me dropping kids at his house, he wants to drop them to me. He has refused to do this again. Why does that matter so much?

Because in the past he has been able to manipulate the situation by using the drop off as a way to get back into your life without meeting any of your conditions.

Stick with the plan.

He refuses to do this again? Tough, he has no choice. I hope you changed your locks.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)