Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Please tell me what he would have to do for me to know that he is serious about change / rehab?

He is an addict. An addict cannot just change. Nobody chooses to be an addict.

You will know he is serious when he goes into rehab and stays the course followed by both outpatient therapy and AA. You will know it worked when he is still clean after a year.

Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
I still feel so much anger towards him. I can’t see myself being able to forgive him.

Take each day as it comes.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)