Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Happy NY peeps.

Got a message from IM saying that could BF have the kids for a few hours this weekend? It is my weekend to have the kids this weekend, he has them next. He also said he is not back at work until mid Jan so can have the kids more.

How shall I respond?

Why do you feel any need to respond? You need to insist on no contact until he has cleaned himself up. Remember what Goody said; 'ignoring the dragon causes it to grow'. Also the parent who files legal papers first will generally fare better.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)