Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
On your next point on starting legal proceedings still holding back on that not sure why?!?!

Interesting question, Dr Harley said to encourage him into rehab. Did he give you specific instructions on what to do if he refused? If he did not, why not send a follow up note saying that he is refusing to even consider rehab or even acknowledge his addictions. Ask for his advice on where to go from here.

It's very normal by the way, to be afraid.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)