Originally Posted by living_well
Interesting question, Dr Harley said to encourage him into rehab. Did he give you specific instructions on what to do if he refused? If he did not, why not send a follow up note saying that he is refusing to even consider rehab or even acknowledge his addictions. Ask for his advice on where to go from here.

Thank you LW - I listened to the radio show again. Dr Harley said that if BF refuses to acknowledge that he has a drinking problem and wants to continue getting drunk then I am to go into Plan B. Once in Plan B then I need to go and see someone about legal advice if I were to move on for good.