Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
Also completely screws my Plan B. BF will get more time with the kids now as he will have to homeschool them. Sorry to be mean but I kind of liked the fact that he was now seeing some of the consequences of his addictions.

Ever since we split up last January he has never really gone without seeing the children.

You need to make a plan. It needs dates, actions and priority rankings. For example, your Zoom meeting with the solicitor will need to come before home school scheduling which needs to come before replacing the washer on the kitchen tap. Type it up and put it in a place where you will see it as you brush your teeth in the morning. Once you have a plan, you will be at peace. You will get through this.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)