Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
BF had clearly been in the house.
The locks have been changed but I have hidden a new spare key in the garden. DS knows about the spare key so must have got it out for BF.

You never want to put your children in a position where they are forced to chose between conflicting demands of parents. When I had to change my locks, not only did I not tell my children where I had hidden the spare key but I did not tell them the locks/alarm were changed. I just made sure they had no need to get into the house when I was not home. Would that be possible for you? This is only a temporary situation until you get exclusive use.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)