Anger is not necessarily a bad thing. It is part of the grieving process and is a great way to motivate yourself to solve problems. It is a primary, natural emotion which has evolved as a way of surviving and protecting yourself from what is considered a wrong-doing. Over time it will fade.

As you go through the stages of grieving (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance) you will discover things about yourself that you needed to know. Yes it is sad but you had to do this. Keep posting, important not to bury your feelings. They are valid and very real.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)