Originally Posted by Coolbeginnings
I know I am doing good because I was singing and cleaning and DS said to me out the blue ‘Mummy you don’t want Daddy to come home do you?’. I wanted to say yes I do, but only if he treats and loves us as we deserve.

If that is the truth, you should have said it. That was a lovely answer and he would have been very happy to hear it.

Boys need a relationship with their fathers and he is trying to work out what you are ok with and what you are not ok with because he also does not want to make you unhappy.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)