Thanks CD...I fully understand what you are saying. I know that I'll have to tell her, but I just worry so much about how she will take it. She went from 105 lbs down to 85 lbs after discovery. She's just recently got to where she can hold down food without throwing up. She's in therapy now and it seems to be helping a little. She wanted a baby sooooo should see her with my kids! I'm affraid that this is going to send her over the edge! I have worried myself sick over how to tell her. Do you have any suggestions as to how I should present this to her? Thanks