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I posted it on Idiotville
I have the shakes
Love never fails.
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Shul, I am so sorry, Babe. I haven't been there today. What in creation is going on? I thought you guys were doing better!!!
Do you want to go over there and talk? Or did you just want a hug? {{{{{{{{{{Shul-Baby}}}}}}}}}}}} Let me know. I'll be hanging out for a while.
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I guess he figured working and coming here to sleep and eat was good enough for me.
And that he could still be single the rest of the time.
I am hurting bad. I just want to sleep and this nightmare to be over.
Beth has been waiting so long for us to do something, but he is always too busy. Finally he gets a weekend off and now this. And to top it off, there is another little girl sleeping in her room adn playing with her toys and her dog, while she sits here with no one and nothing to do.
How could he be so cruel?
Love never fails.
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Shul I just went over there to read what happened to.
I know you are going to get mad at me, but now is the time for some consequences. Nothing else has worked.
Sometimes, love must be tough. That's your sig line Shul, and I know you believe more than anything else that love really will prevail.
So if you love him and your daughter, do what needs to be done. Turn him loose and set him free so that repentence can find him, once and for all. It's not too late for the second half of the plan.
You need to start protecting your heart.
((((Shul))))
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I am going to try and sleep for awhile before it gets busy at work.
(For those who don't know, I run a motel /internet cafe in the country. I work 24/7. Thats why I am so homesick. We live in a motel room.)We had to move here when he walked out 2 years ago, and then he moved back into the house last fall. For a long time I wasn't allowed there b/c he was bringing ow there and I caught him.
I need to sleep.
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Shul, I read your last I'ville post to B. No wonder you have the shakes, Hon!
He has his "reasons". ::snort!::
Bay, hang in there. What Weaves says makes lots of sense. But you gotta have the stomach for it. Can you do it? We can be here for you if you need to vent.
love and hugs, sweetie.
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Shul,
Get some rest, bay. But come back and let us know how you are later, when you get a chance, 'kay?
**edited -- sorry -- that wasn't nice **
::harumph!::
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Weaver,
I guess you are right. I don't know what else to do.
I will tell him that he wins.
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Shul, HE IS NOT WINNING!
You are GAINING control by Plan B, Babe. Before you lose all love for him.
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I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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You can do this.
We are here for you, no matter what you decide.
Hugs for you and your daughter this weekend.
Please check in when you can.
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Shul,
We are all with you. It's okay to feel scared, and it's okay to cry. You are not alone, we are with you, DD is with you and God is with you. You are such a special person, with enough love for an army inside your one and only heart, you must start to protect it. He will bottom out in Plan B, and you know this. It is time to take away the net. Only through this will he be restored to man you once saw.
I am so very sorry. Gawd how I hate false recoveries.
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Hey the girls are all here tonight.
What should we talk about?
I am going down state to see John Fogerty and John Mellancamp on Monday for an outdoor concert. Should be fireworks there too, I would imagine.
Not sure how to dress? For comfort or for attention?
I'll pack both, just in case.
Faithful,
I read your post, that was really nice.
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SLH,
I went to HS with a girl who had Anorexia. In fact a good friend of mine married her but then she ended up in a hospital for what seemed like might turn out to be permanent, and he divorced her.
What a horrible, horrible demon to have to fight. I have so much compassion for you in dealing with type of illness.
My daughter is a little bit overweight and her dad and I often are at a loss with how to approach it because we worry about focusing on looks and weight but then we don't want ot ignore it either.
So we just stress healthy eating and exorcise. I think Faith's daughter is faced with something similar with her daughter.
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Hey, where'd everybody go?
Well I am going to go watch a movie, then I s'pose you all will be back out, after dark.
Oh well see you in the a.m. then.
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{{{SHUL}}}
86 that man, Shul. For your own good, and for his.
Picture yourself in ten years.
Are you still suffering this way?
You will be if you just keep wishin' and hopin' and prayin'. You do have control over your life, and you've refused to use it. Take the wheel from your H. Take it!
It's the most loving thing you can do for him.
{{{SHUL}}} gets cyberhugged two times
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I am going down state to see John Fogerty and John Mellancamp on Monday for an outdoor concert. Should be fireworks there too, I would imagine.
Not sure how to dress? For comfort or for attention? I vote striking but comfy. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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Okay then, I'll forgo the baseball cap.
Sure wish I hadn't looked to see you back faith, I was trying to get off of here.
Dang there is an awful lot of "I's" in all my posts. Wonder what that means.
How are you tonight?
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