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Weaver .... drinking to numb your pain ... that is not the correct door ... choose a different door honey.
This can be a wake up call ... as in .... detour .... headed in wrong direction....
Thank God you were only arrested .... there are much worse things that can happen ... much worse.
Get legal advice. Court may expunge your record if you agree to some community service or AA meetings, something like that ... go this route if possible.
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I now know where evil lives. I hate cops. Weaver, I'm glad no one was hurt. You were fortunate. It is the cops job to keep the town safe. People are killed in drunk driving accidents every day. Had it been your daughter driving drunk, I think you would be glad the cop pulled her over and kept her and the other people on the road safe. Consequences for drinking and driving drunk...just like consequences for affairs. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but I don't want you to get hurt! Where was your daughter while you spent the night in jail? Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make him wag his tail.
~ Kinky Friedman
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Oh, weaver. I'm really sorry you got into that snag.
You keep finding things that chasten you. It's remarkable, for one whose soul is clearly intact.
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FL, FF, we'll see you real soon. Both of you, be well.
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gc:
We need 2 sing some silly *brown stuff edited out* around here. Cheer these gals up!
Can I hear you say "Doot!?"
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I'm listening to gospel! I need to shift my perspective, maybe. Haven't pulled out Freak Out! or We're Only in it for the Money in a while... maybe tonight's the night.
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AH!
"You're probably wondering why I'm here, and so am I, so am I!"
Kazoos! fine musical instrument!!!
Now you're talking, gc!
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Ac2ally (sorry), one of my favorite FZ releases is The Lost Episodes. I hope everyone's sense of humor is working when they read this. It's definitely pushing it:
L.A. in the summer of '69
I went downtown and bought me some wine
I wasted my head on a bottle of juice
And now the grape won't cut me loose
Well, I'm a wino man!
Well, don't you know I am?
Great God Almighty
Don't you know I'm a wino man
36, 24, hips about 30
I see fine lady and I start talkin' dirty
She looked at me and then she raised her thumb
And said, "Jam down the road, you funky a** bum"
Well, I'm a wino man
Well, don't you know I am
Great God Almighty
Don't you know that I'm a wino man
I went to the country
And while I was gone
I lost control of my body functions
On a roller-headed lady's front lawn
I'm so ashamed
But I'm a wino man, and I can't help myself
I been drinkin' all night until my eyes got red
Stumbled on the gutter and busted my head
Bugs in my zoot suit
Been scratchin' like a dog
Can't stand no water
And I stink like a hog
Give me a five dollar bill
And an overcoat too
Give me a five dollar bill
And an overcoat too
A five dollar bill
And an overcoat too
A five dollar bill
And a Florsheim shoe
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Poetry! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Heh, heh. I love that tune.
Okay, ahem. Serious a second. I'm going out in a bit, but before I go...
2long, et al., I am having a strange experience.
I'm having feelings of enormous affection for the sparrow. Not, boy oh boy, I wish she were here feelings, but strong caring feelings.
Maybe plan B actually worked in a way.
What does it matter though? I might never speak to her again. Oh, well.
I could use one of J's cookies. I was supposed to go for sushi with my chums, so I didn't eat all afternoon. They dragged their butts, and only now they're on the way to the city. I think I'm gonna make 'em pick me up. Least they can do for making me wait around all night, right?
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It's late for sushi. Have cookies first.
Weaver.... I'm guessing that cell, and the way that they treated you, are designed to make a very strong impression the first time you're in there. I'm terribly sorry for the pain you're in right now. I'm also glad, for you and for that young girl, that the experience was terrifying. Because I'd really like for you both to never, ever repeat it.
Pepperband had good advice about the AA or community service and getting your record expunged, and the thought of your continuance because you don't have legal counsel is also a good one. Take heart, sweetie... and, err, maybe no more dates for a while, ok?
Instead, sing along with 2long and GC. They're very silly, but they're cute when they sing harmony like that.
I'd much rather that you come here and sing silly songs with
Sunny Day, Sweeping The Clouds Away...
Just J --
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JJ,
Yes I will ask for the AA/community service route. And no, I am not ready to date, and I will never get behind the wheel after drinking again.
I hope the police act that way for a reason, and I'm sure it does keep alot of people from repeating. I can't imagine going through that ordeal twice.
tqt,
This tread is all about butting in. That's why it's so welcoming. So thank you for taking the time to voice your concern. It means a lot to me.
The pastors whole point is that one needs to accept responsibility for their actions and not try to get it lowered due to extenuating circumstances. I was drunk, I was also in a bad emotional place but I chose to break the law. I think his line of thinking is along the lines of a 12 step program. He works with alot of alcohlics, and has a very high success rate with them in his church and the community.
Susan,
My daughter is with her dad these four months (50/50 custody), but he is bringing her over for the day today.
He is the one who came down and bailed me out, he also didn't tell DD about it but I did this morning. He can be such a good guy, I am so thankful she has him.
Pep,
Yep, wrong door, lesson learned and I am following everything you guys write about Al-anon. Wierd how I keep living what is going on in some of these threads. Last weekend with the "people of the lie" thing and now this.
Too wierd, and that brings me to Gray - Yes I keep going through stuff. I have to believe I am on some kind of lesson learning journey, and choas/heartache is the reaccuring theme.
Enough already though.
2long,
I can't find that song by either group name. Kind of bummed about that too, but will keep searching.
Faith,
Taking a break from here is easier said then done. Hope you can do it though, because I know exactly what you are talking about. Hope you can beat this depression which seems to be hanging on to you.
Thank you everyone. I am so thankful you all continue to put up with me, and my problems.
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Weaver:
Static Revenger claims they're the only place you can download that song. I believe it. I've looked off and on for over 3 years now, and only saw it recently. Had 2 pay like a buck and a half for it, 2. But I like the song, so I did anyway.
best,
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Hugs Weaver. Hang in there. Advice from Mom ~aka moi ---> give up the drinking for now. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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ditto Suz's post
Don't want Weaver to be found in a ditch off some road... no way!
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Pep:
Reminds me: 27 years ago, I was working in a machine shop... The guy driving the roach coach one day asked our foreman "What do you guys make here, anyway?" He didn't hesitate a 2nd "Minimum Wage!"
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One more thing Weaver. I really don't think you are ready for dating yet, but I think you realized that with this experience. You are still so bruised and sore. Concentrate on yourself. Concentrate on being a healthy Mom for your daughter. Spend time with her (when she get's back from her Dads). The time will fly and she will be grown before you know it. Do you have (as Pep calls it)a house of worship? Does it have a singles group? Now would be a good time to spend time having fun with friends or groups. Close attachments can come a little later. Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Hi Weaver, I understand what you said... and thanks for taking the time to reply. Hang in there... hope it all gets resolved as quickly and painlessly as possible. A judge recognizes someone of truly good character, vs. someone with a blatant disregard for the law -- and I believe you're the former <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I wish you the best.
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