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"Too bad you and car4love don't fall in love."


Oh, Weaver. That would be way too much like wife-swapping, don't you think?

Uck. On general principles of course. GC can fall in love with whomver he wants.

With prayers,

PS: I caught a fish yesterday.


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WS: They are who they are.

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Yes, you could be right Ap. I guess I didn't really think of it that way. They are good friends though, and from what I read that is a good way to start a R, that's what I was thinking about.

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What kind of fish? Hi Appy <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Hi FF, Appy, Weaver (with the green eyes), greycloud (with the grey shroud), and where is our old friend 2?

2Long, in case you are reading, sorry about the "wheel of spirit". She's been champ, but nothing (at least of human construction) lasts forever.

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Hi AD et al.

I can fall in love with whoever I want. Tra la la.

I'm in love with Russ Feingold and I am totally not gay.

My brother's wife is pregnant. My parents will finally get to be granny and pappy. Though the news was delivered rather awfully early.

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I can fall in love with whoever I want. Tra la la.
GC

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

But the metaphysical question is
"If you are falling in love (a la cupid shot 'ya), does it have anything to do with what you want?"

-AD

... and that's whomever... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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AD, I reckon falling in love will only happen if you bring about the occasions for it. You might not be able to make it happen, but you can definitely make it not happen.

But don't listen to me. If I was so smart I wouldn't be alone right now.

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Oh AD, I just love metaphysics! And so speaking, you must first be open to it, and then when the right person comes along you make a split second decision to fall in love with that particular person, and then...whammo you're screwed (because after this point I think it takes on a life of it's own), in other words "love has come to town" .

And hopefully it is reciprocated because -

You can't make someone love you back, you can only stalk them, hoping they panic and give in. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
whomever they may be. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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But don't listen to me. If I was so smart I wouldn't be alone right now.


au contraire, had your ex not been so stupid you wouldn't be alone. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


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jelly!!!!!!!

I was in your neck of the woods weekend before last...stayed in an old lighthouse which had been made into a house (on Lake Michigan), walked way out on the breakers and everything (just like it was spring). Even went to TC to see "Grease" on ice...it was fun!

PS: It's just the inbetween time for Gray...'twont be long now, I'm thinking. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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Still North of me, you Hillbilly. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Was this a romantic weekend???????? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />


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Nope, not romantic...my daughter and the girl who works with me.

I do have a romantic weekend coming up week after next, he's from down in your area... and that's all I'm saying.

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AD:

I'm thinking of changing my name 2 2lurk!

Either that or my ears were burning or something.

Been odd, in a comfy sorta way. Had dinner and a LONG convo with Spacecase last week while I was in Huce Ton. He is such a good friend.

I must admit still being puzzled over some of the things he's been able 2 achieve spiri2ally and relationship2ally. I think I understand them intellec2ally, but internalizing them is still a bit downrange for me.

But I do know he's right about forgiveness. I see that in his '2de!

gc, sorry about the digression.

-ol' 2lurk
P.S. Spirit's in a tough position, but it's still got 5 good wheels! We need 2 tilt north for the winter, though. Only 100 meters 2 go 2 a north-facing slope, and we're not sure we'll have the power 2 get there...

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I do have a romantic weekend coming up week after next, he's from down in your area... and that's all I'm saying.


Oh yeah, I've heard of him, he's a nice guy. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

Come on, seriously, that's all you can give me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

Is he an actual troll????


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Romantic weekend, Weaver?? hmmm..details, we want details!

GC, yeah what the Queen said.

Hi AD, 2long and where is J?


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> If I was so smart I wouldn't be alone right now.

Horseapples!

Maudlin does not suit you GC. You can try, but I'm calling you on it RIGHT NOW!

Jel's right. Your ex is the dufus. I think it's terminal for her, poor thing.

You, however are brilliant, kind, generous and GOOD. The proverbial "it" will happen when it happens. In the meantime ENJOY!

Weaver - "romance?" My ears perked forward....do tell...

Jel! Background check STAT!

2long - Huce-Ton? Blech. Why not a "real" city? Like, SAT?

- Kimmy


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NO I was just fooling around with that boo-hooing. My roommate and his GF were having sex and I was slightly annoyed.

If I'da known the queen was reading I would've described the racket some.

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>My roommate and his GF were having sex and I was slightly annoyed.

There's nothing worse than HEARING someone else getting lucky....specially when you're not.

No wonder the lady upstairs always gives us dirty looks....

LMAO!

Been swimmin' GC?


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Oh I agree with Kimmy...yucky, they should wait until you are out of the house.

He is a troll Jelly...I prefer cheeseheads, but they are not good for me, they keep breaking my heart.

That is really nice about Space 2long...I am thinking this guy I am starting to date is not spiritual enough for me. I really want to have that in my life now and think it would be so much easier to achieve if your partner is heading down the same path...or atleast seeking it.

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Been swimmin' GC?

Yeah, lots. Yesterday was evil 'cause a kid, maybe 14 or 15, was in the lane next to me. He obviously was trying to race me, starting when I started, resting when I rested. After a while I said,

"Haaah, haaah, haaah, I'm gettin' tired buddy, I think you'll get me on this next one."

"Haaaah, haaah, haaah, yeah, maybe," he said.

But getting raced by this kid made me push it, and I was DYING when I finally got out of the water. At least my pride was intact. Little s**t never did catch me.

GC

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