Miss M - I am so sorry to hear about your mom's illness. My prayers are with her and your family.

It made me feel good to read your daughter's letter to the OW. It doesn't matter how OW took it, it matters that your daughter was able to let her know how OW's selfish behavior hurt your family.

Miss M - thanks for coming to visit my post. I need all of you right now.

Seems God is guiding each of us to scripture through one another.

b0b - you were guiding me in another post ("hopeless"), and very helpful. Thank you for telling me your story. OMG. It will change what I pray for. I miss you in my current post ("Affair confirmed") - but I am well taken care of by many veterans. I also have figured out that you vets kinda work like a counseling center - sharing the load. I do not know if it just happens that way, or if you folks pay attention to it - or maybe God just plugs in the ones He wants - but it is cool to see the pool of experience and knowledge help us through this.


Peace to you and your mom, Miss M.

thank you all, it means so much to me.

believer,

yes, I agree. My DD let ow know just how much it hurt. It doesn't matter what her reply was. My DD wn't be contacting. She just needed to say what was on her heart. ow does not care. Not MY problem. I just know that my DD does not yell at me. We are very close. Hence, my knowlegdge and acess to ow/DD contact. exow has kids close in age to mine. Why are they still yelling? it's all good at MY house.

found,

Thank you lots. For the reminder. Read what God gave me for you. It was in my face for a year. Everyday.

and found, your WS is persecuting you also. You really need to pray what God wants you to do. God Bless you.

Hey thanks all, I need all the support I can get. After all you all are my MB family.

Thank you all for prayers for my mom. She has suffered so much, and wants to go home to the Lord, see my dad and brother. I feel selfish that I wanted more time. Well, not my will, but the Lords. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

Yours in total humility,
Love in Christ,
Miss M

bump^

(and that would be without shame!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />)

Love in Christ
Miss M

Miss M,

Is your mom with you now, where you live?

I am so sorry that she is going through this, and you. Losing my mom was the hardest thing I have ever faced in this life. I am so glad you have time to spend with her now.

I too am very glad your DD was able to write a letter and purge herself somewhat of her anger and pain.

Thank God your marriage is in a good place now.

I love reading all the passages from the bible on here. It is so comforting. Especially the ones that notso posted regarding those who sow tears, reaping joy.

Miss M I didn't know your DH is a musician. My DD's dad is as well. I remember lots of extra problems for spouses of the guys in the band. It takes a very strong man and marriage to be able to weather the constant temptations, glad you have one who has again found his strength in you and the family.

Miss M, you shameless hussy! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I may have messed up my email on aol. I'm receiving OK at my new address. It's the same name @bellsouth.net. I'm at work now so don't have much time. Just wanted to say "hi".

weaver, TOFT,

Thank you for your replies.

I did not see it until now. This board moves sooo fast.

Anyhoo, I am on late, as usual. Toft. I got your email. Have been a'workin, and just got here now after fathers day and all that. I am off for 3 days.

weaver, my h is strong, and I thank God for this, and I thanked him for his faith in the Lord today, that he has been strong for me these last couple of years.

TOFT, thanks so much hon, I am GLAD my DD got all this off her shoulders, but donchathink, that any ow would have said I am so sorry, NOT.

Remember this everyone.

Bumpin' up y'all.

I just thought my DD said what every DD or DS wanted to say to the op given the situation. DD is wonderful. She does NOT want to respond. After all, the answer said it all. Some folks, (op's) just NEVER get it do they? LOL. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Not that I care. I have the most wonderful guy for a H these days. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Oh, and weaver, I was a pro musian for a long time, so I understand the atmosphere. Gave it up to raise those 'childrens.' It is what it is <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />. And I long to do it again. Living my bliss. Singing Jazz, Blues, R&B. And maybe playing some Bass while I am at it!!! Am I not the perfect spouse for my H? He is the BEST <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> musician!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Love in Christ,
Miss M

Miss M, bumping you up so you don't get lost!

I'm at work of course, and things are so hectic here AND at home that I find it hard to get my thoughts together to post anything sensible.

Just want you to know that I'm thinking of you and your Mother. {{{{Hugs to both}}}}. I lost my Mother 8 years ago, just 3 days short of her 85th birthday. She had suffered a stroke about 5 years earlier and was crippled and in pain from rheumatoid arthritis. It was hard to see her that way and she was ready to be free of it.

I'll try to write more later. I need to be a night-owl too--maybe I could get everything done!

Miss M,
Hope things are going well. It's about time.

SS