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Hi All

Beautiful day here in Devon, hoping it going to last for a few weeks. Camping in Dorset for a week, then caravan in Newquay for a week.

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Me 40 WW 38 (NC since 18 June 2005) SS9, DS4, DD2 D/Day 24 April 2005 EA/PA 1/05 to 4/05 Both working at relationship Been here before with exWife, and will not be here again!
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FAA, I must just say every time i read your handle I sing that MAGNIFICENT song in my head 'burn baby burn' !

Another poster is called 'learning to fly' and I recall the similarly magnificent Foo Fighter's song 'learn to fly'.

It ALWAYS cheers me up ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I always wondered where people from Devon go on holiday !

Newquay Cornwall or Newquay wales ?


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Hi bob

Newquay Cornwall for the surf, hoping to introduce DS4 to body boarding. He has done a very good job of introducing himself to the Playstation2 and the Monsters Inc game so far this holiday, that said, when the weather was good a few weeks ago he was outside on the waterslide, freezing and going blue with cold but still wouldn't come in.

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I went to see Ash in cornwall last year, they were magnificent. We dont get many bands down here, no big venue and probably not enough people.

Many many many years ago I had the pleasure of seeing Queen live, Freddie Mercury was fantastic, he made the show, a total out and out performer. He had all 20'000 people at the show in the palm of his hand.

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We dont get many bands down here, no big venue

Apart from gastonbury, but it doesn't really count cos its a festival. And FWW has already said she doesn't fancy being in a tent in the mud. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

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PS I must be going mad, I am answering my own posts


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bOb

you going anywhere over the summer?

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I NEVER saw Queen !!!! I was a fan in the 70's, then not really through hot space and thos eodd albums. Not again until the works, then they were too huge to get tickets for easily !

A real music regret that I never saw queen live.

I remember seeing a cornish band called Reef at my local hole a few year sback. They were pretty good !

I haven;t seen Ash for AGES, they were just boys when 1977 came out. I bet they're great live now.

I loved 'the girl from mars'. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


No holiday for us this summer - MIL could die any day or last another six months. Squid doesn;t want to be away when that happens.

We have a holiday home in Wales that we will spend some time at in the next few weeks. If the weathers OK.


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It was The Works tours in 1983/4 when I saw Queen. I was lucky enough that a mate knew the promoter. Also seen Springsteen on his Born in the US tour, saw Oasis at Knebworth but the beat of the bunch by some distance was Freddie and Queen.

Try and picture this...
Queen left the stage during Bohemium Rapsody (they didn't perform it live during this phase of their evolution). Freddie came back with a guitar on. Everyone in the audience was waiting for him to say or do something, and he said, "I hate playing this f***ing thing", another pause, "I only know one f***ing cord", then he started with the rhythm cord of Crazy little thing called love, the crowd went wild. It was truly amazing and awesome and I dont have sufficient words to describe it.

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I just thought I'd pop in and say hi. I'm back from a week's vacation in Spain.

When I first glanced at the thread, I thought the Brits were carrying on about the Queen Mother. God bless her.


Me BS 44
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M 20 years
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DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
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Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)


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Any one here at the mo?

Could do with a little levelling on a situation.

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2b, I'm here now mate.


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Hi brits & europhiles!

I go to the cold UK for my hols. We moved to Ibiza 18 months ago. I´m 5 weeks from D day. My WS of 35 years (we were children at the time) has moved in with my "friend" 200 yds away.

I´m writing this by the pool, looking out to sea...& it´s "scorchio". It´s a all a bit wasted sitting here alone with no one to play with..Oh well! I´m keeping strong...I need to. I´ve just returned from a week in Blighty seeing my adult kids and the plan A charm offensive starts now.

I notice a lot of music references. I´m listening to Buddy Holly, Dizzy Gillespie, Taj Mahal, Professor Longhair & ? & the Mysterionsat the moment. I don´t know what that says about me!

If any of you MBs are ever on the island, look me up & we can have a beer.

Time for a swim & another San Miguel!

Pip! Pip!

Ibiza


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WW left for OM

2 sons 25 & 27 DIL 24

Plan A until 28 oct 05

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I'm sorry about your situation....what with the culture shock of moving abroad and your spouse turning into a WS you have been through a lot in a short time.

I don't know your story but I will search your posts. I probably can't offer any useful advice to you but you are in great supportive hands on this site.

The further I get away from last summer when I was a WS the more I see how vile infidelity is. I have learnt huge lessons from this....I hope your WS returns to you...Plan A can work <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

San Mig by the pool sounds wonderful Ibiza! The UK wasn't so cold these last couple of days you know! Well in my bit of the UK it was OK. You must have come over at the wrong time, we can have "Scorchio" too you know <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Are U ok 2B ?


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