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Hello everyone,

I gave birth to a healthy baby girl August 22nd 8:42pm 7lbs 2oz. Easy delivery. She is beautiful. Husband is still depolyed will be back early November.


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Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm so happy for you (and frankly jealous of your easy birthing!).

- Kimmy


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

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And her name is.............

That is great. Only a little over 2 more months.

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LOL @ believer...

Her name is:
Jacinda (means beautiful in Greek)
Ann (My mother and MIL middle name)


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Jacinda is a lovely name, and unusual. Is she sleeping all night yet?

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Heck no..not yet. Things have been so hectic having family visit and dealing with a 2 year old, I haven't been able to even attempt to get her on a schedule yet.


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Congratulations!

I'm sure she is beautiful. Jacinda is a beautiful name.


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Congratulations White Dove!

They only stay babies a short time. Enjoy the precious blessing from god.


In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.

Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
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Congratulations! Now take care of you, too.


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Congratulations WD on your new 'tax deduction'. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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I love babies !

All blessings !


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Congrats whitedove!!!!!!!!


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me FWW - EA/PA fall of 2004
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Thats great White Dove

We just have a new baby too, a boy and I'm being deployed again this week to Afghanistan.

All the wives of serving men deserve medals I reckon.

Bet your H will be so happy to get home!!

Take care. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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Thank you so much:
Frozen, kdsheartbreak, Faithful Follower, Orchid, Bobpure, Dorry and Aussie2.

When I found out that I was pregnant, I was miserable. At the same time I found out that my H had cheated on me throughout our entire courtship, he was in FOG (don't know if I'm using the word right). H felt like since the A occured before we were married, he "technically" didn't do anything wrong. Of course the thought entered my mind on several occasions not to go through with pregnancy.

I prayed and asked God what He would want me to do. He answered my prayers and then some. We have been in a positive uphill recovery since March. Recently I got an email from him saying that he was looking at our D pictures thinking that she would have never been if I didn't find it in my heart to forgive him and that he will never take me and the sacrifices I've made for granted.

My H for the first time in his life has a real relationship with God through Jesus. We are finally on the same page, he is being honest about his feelings and going the extra mile to make our M one that is strong and based on godly principles. So far we are a testimony of a M gone from bad to great!

Thanks to MB forum and marriage information we have been able to get from point A to point B.


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WhiteDove--Many blessings!! My oldest DD (24) was born on that day, too! If she's anything like my daughter, she should have been named Helen Joy, because those are the two things she's been. Wouldn't trade either DD for anything.


Me 47 FWH 49 M 26years 2 DD 24, 22 D-day 10/03 Daledogsmom@yahoo.com *formerly known as Dougswife*

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