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Me/BS 48
Married 16 yrs/together 23; 1 child
Dday 4/05; WH "needed space" and left 5/05
WH Filed D papers 6/05 - Divorce final 12/05
WH moved in with OW 11/05; moved out OW 1/06
12/06 His 3rd and strongest attempt at reconcilliation (I believe OW still in picture)
2/07 Affair over, begging me to take him back - it's too late.
WH has tried numerous times to reconcile.
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TOO funny Shattered! And what's your WH thinking? He's pickin' possum pants over a runway model with a great sense of humor?

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Sadly, I can't claim my xwh's o/w was ugly.
She is in fact quiet pretty with huge big brown expressive eyes, her personality is bubbly, upbeat, twenty one years younger the xwh and is loud and very opinionated. She has beautiful long brown locks. The only comfort I have is the fact that she is known by her work as the "Player", and loves to make new best friends with men. My theory is because her father was an awful child molestor, and left a big hole in her life, she now has a problem with needing all eligible and non elgible men to satisfy her emotional needs. I feel pity for her husband. I also pity myself because my xwh still to this day doesn't think badly of what she did.


In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.

Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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The only comfort I have is the fact that she is known by her work as the "Player", and loves to make new best friends with men.

Along with the fact that he is still with you, and seems to be trying - right? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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