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My wish was to feel special and cherished by my H. To see that he was willing to put some effort into saving our marriage and to hear a heartfelt apology for his behaviour - not just regret for the damage caused by being caught.
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Wholeheartedly agree with comment above. My H says that he is sorry for the hurt that he has caused me, but he continues to do the same thing!! I now think that he is only sorry that I found out about it.
Georgina.
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Valentine's Wish: For my Valentine to be home instead of out of town. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
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I appreciate everyone's responses and I feel the same as all of you. Each and every one of these wishes could be mine and if I could grant them to you I certainly would without a moments hesitation!
Thank you all for your posts. My heart goes out to each and every one of you and your WS. I wish you all the best of luck and success in your journey.
God bless all of you and may your wishes come true, if not today, on another day very soon.
"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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Joined: Aug 2004
Posts: 445
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Today I have taken comfort in knowing that unlike my WH, my Lord will not abandon me, fail me or leave me. I have made Him my Valentine today.
My Ultimate Valentine today..."For God so love the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him, should not perish, but have everlasting life." John 3:16 I think that is real love.
Katie
God grades on the cross, not the curve.
WH-42/BS-41(Me)
Married 23yrs
S21, S19, D13
PA-7/04-now
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My wish would be that my Dday was not Valentines Day. It just reminds me of the day I felt like my safe little world had fallen apart.
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Joined: Nov 2005
Posts: 207
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My wish was to feel special and cherished by my H. To see that he was willing to put some effort into saving our marriage and to hear a heartfelt apology for his behaviour - not just regret for the damage caused by being caught.
I can't say it any better...
Me - BS 34
WH - 39
Married 9/17/05 (2nd marraiges for both)
Friends since childhood
EA - 8/05-10/05
D-day: 10/19/05 (I moved out)
Moved back in together: 12/7/05
I moved back out 2/22/06 due to emotional abuse and very mild physical abuse
7 children between ages of 6 months and 15.
I moved back in on 11/25/06.
We are still each in IC...
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Joined: Oct 2005
Posts: 530
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To have my family back home, safe and warm, with my WW just being my W.
BH (41), WW (40)
D-Day 9/4/05
DS(15), DSS(13)
Divorce Filed 1/9/05
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Posts: 426
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My wish would be that WW would have set me down and expressed some of her unmet needs and unhappiness before D-Day. After D-Day there were so many other emotions clouding the issues I don't think she knows what was going thru her mind anymore. At least we could have talked about it in a rational and less emotional environment.
Dukhuntr
"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that opened for us" - Helen Keller
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