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did I think I would be in this position.

Contact has been broken. I am almost back to square one.

If I ever needed you all it is now.

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Are you back to square one or is H back there or both? Sorry I am not your best bet but I am awake.

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(((((Jen)))))

I think you need to tell us a bit more. You know we'll be here for you. A BBQ sounds like a nice idea don't you think.


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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I am back to almost square one. Not H. Not quite.

BigK why oh why didn't I listen to you. I know I should have.

A BBQ sounds like a fine idea.

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Oh shoot, I've lost my link to the BBQ. The computer crashed today and we had to do a complete recovery.

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email me Jen - williams at smartchat dot net dot au

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LOL, Traic, not my best bet but awake.

What an offer. LMAO

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Done, BigK

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....The computer crashed today and we had to do a complete recovery.

'a complete recovery'....is that what is needed?

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LOL, Traic, not my best bet but awake.

What an offer. LMAO


Sorry. Wasn't my intention to offend. I was just considering the time zones we are all in and I simply meant that I wanted to try and support you in any way I could even though someone with my limited experience and in my particular situation might not be best positioned to help. Apparently we are of the same opinion.

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You didn't offend. It was a joke.

Going to bed now. Talked to some very good friends.

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I don't understand, Kiwi. Contact has been broken?

or is it No Contact has been broken?

I hope you feel better today...


I do not blame the xwh for his affairs and abandoning our marriage. He fulfills 90% of the Cleckley Criteria

I forgive him for his insanity and I forgive myself for being gullible to his charms.
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Jen - who contacted whom?

WAT

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i feel sick....:(


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Kiwi: We're here for you. Step back. Please, you and H have worked so hard.

Let's talk


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will be praying for you Kiwi. Will be here for you too.


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Awwww kiwi

I was there the first day you talked to BigK...I am sorry that things seemed to have spiraled. Love ya chickie and you will get through this. (HUGS)

candice.louise@gmail.com - email anytime or see you in bbq.


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The Recovery Guide for WW's (Wayward Wives)
Dorry's Story

[color:"blue"]Excuses are easy...change is hard....[/color]
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Jen

Obviously I know nothing of your situation. If I can help ping me thru minidiotville.

Praying for you anyway.

{{{{my friend Jen}}}}


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What is BBQ?

Hugs Kiwi.

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An E-group unrelated to MB we are both members of res.


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