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Folks...a few friends have decided I need an adult beverage. So, I will go have one (or two!).
I will come back on later tonight and put the blow-by-blow on here, as I think it will help all of us know how these things go.
Plus, you all have been so involved in this for so long...you deserve to know how it went. You were there!!
But right now, I deserve a beer.
Always in His Presence
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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Almighty God I thank you for the blessing of a hedge of Angels.
NO evil passed it this day. AMEN !
Jacob wrestled with God and earned a new name : Israel
This Day, Mortarman you have a new name : "He who walks beside God" for you have walked steadfastly beside Him through travails and against evil without diverting from HIS path.
Claim this name as the blessing it is.
Amen.
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Halleluia!
I haven't posted much as ds has strep throat...and working like mad..but knew good things would happen for you...prayed and expected them.
Just as you, in the end, even though my M failed, there is so much peace and calm knowing you did all you could do.
Yes, Mortar,your soldiers were standing there...I was there too in spirit. and some others, yes,your angels, were in the mongst of all of us MB prayer warriors who care for you and your family so very much.
will the wS get it? probably. but know that if a ws continues down that ws path, they won't get better...many times they get worse...i myself am going thru some tough times wtih him as he's doing some imho very damaging things to my ds..saying to him too...and i am retaining a new attorney and may seek a modification in custody in the next six months.
i wouldn't be surprised if that happened wtih you too...as the ws don't get better unless they find their faith and pull their heads outta their butts and leave the fog forever. she should be thanking heaven she got any custody at all...and it's great about the no overnights...but my xh tried to circumvent it....if she's trying to angle around it...like having om stay until 2 am and leave before breakfast, you may have to enlist a pi for that...as that is serious grounds for contempt...and will certainly be part of my re-evaluation of custody case..just one of the thousands of issues i have wtih the x.
you are a man of HONOR...integrity...hope...and wisdom. you are a MB hero and champion to so many here. andyes, one day your precious children will look to you with admiration in their eyes knowing their dad moved mountains for them...i am truly sorry you're joining the "d" club mortar...but someday someone who is truly worthy of you and your precious children will be brought into your life...and life is definitely much easier wtihout the undue stress a ws presents in it.
God bless you my friend <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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Standing Always in His Presence. That choked me up with tears. Very glad things worked out in His way. MM, your WW will be in my prayers.
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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49 DS 30 DD 21 DS 15 OCDS 8
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MM,
""Today...I will no longer sign out with "In His arms." From this moment forward, I stand beside Him. And we will walk together from here.
So, my sign off is such:
Standing Always in His Presence.""
VERY AWESOME!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
I got all misty and goose bumpy!!
God bless you!
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Last edited by krusht; 07/12/06 04:31 PM.
CORDUROY PILLOWS ARE MAKING HEADLINES!!
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AWESOME, my friend! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Wonderfull news MM.
Yesterday I had a picture in my mind very like what you describe..I pictured yourself in court with witnesses [everyone who posted actually showing up] standing ready to give testimony and a heavenly host behind you while your WW stood alone except for her mother and they were both lost.
I deleted it thinking..that's silly why bother posting your little daydream!
Now I wish I had posted it after all because I think that you are correct in believing that you weren't alone in that room..and I wouldn't be suprised if many people who posted to you yesterday had a similar experience.
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Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW) D-Day August 2005 Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23 Empty Nesters. Fully Recovered.
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MM:
Praise the LORD!!! We are doing a whirlwind vacation on your side of the states and I have not checked in since we started a couple weeks ago. I however had this overwhelming urge to check in tonight and I am so glad that I did. Your kids are so Blessed to have a dad who will stand up and fight for them and for his beliefs. We need so many more men like you in our kids lives. You have also showed them how much you love them and even though you have had some tough moments you have not dogged on their mom. Because even though she is not following the right path she is still their mom and you showing them that will go far with your kiddos.
We were at Gettysburg yesterday and as I was reading your posts, I was seeing what must have been happening to you in how all those men felt in Gettysburg.
You have shown us your incredible faith and yet your flesh side also. However your faith and your walk has far out done your flesh side. You have been an incredible testimony to many. You are truly a spiritual leader and have come so far in your walk. None of us are perfect in our walks, however GOD uses these walks in so many ways.
My prayers to you and your family.
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HIS WILL BE DONE!
congrats! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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AND What a Powerful Presence it is Indeed!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Overjoyed that you Feel sooo Happy with the Outcome! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
I'm sure that brew tastes like Nectar! Have Another ......You deserve it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
Truly, Standing in Faith can be Oh So Trying (at times) ......but Ultimately -- Oh So Rewarding. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
Could go on and ON and On .......so I'll wrap that We ALL Are Smiling WITH YOU (and your children). <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
Fooling people is serious business, but when you fool yourself it Becomes Fatal.
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you are a man of HONOR...integrity...hope...and wisdom. you are a MB hero and champion to so many here. Peach, I couldn't have said it any better. MM, you dererve this outcome and I'm happy that you can begin the process of moving on and focusing on your kids now. Enjoy that "adult beverage" and try to relax a little now. All the best. HTW
Married 10 years, Legally Seperated Aug 2,2006 1 year of Plan A followed by 1 year of Plan B... ...now stepping towards recovery????? BH 37(me), WW 35, DB 7 & DD 5 My Story My struggle with an EA
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I like Sapporo dark...have 1 4 me....with a friend so you don't have to drink and drive, ok?
w/b waiting for the update. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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LOL Orchid,
For a sec there I thought you said..have 14!
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I haven't been on in a few days - but wow - what a week for you - this is great news and the power of prayer really does work when it's what God has in store for you.
(((HUGS))) and congaats!
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MM -
Congratulations on the outcome. That was a great story to share...hearing that you actually felt (saw?) the presence of the angels.
I look forward to hearing more about your day in court.
Formerly known as brokenbird
BH (Me) - 38 WW (Magpie) - 31 Married 2001 (Together 8 years) DS - 13 DD - 5 EA/PA - 9/05-12/05 D-Day - 11/05
Second separation. Working on me.
If you remain in Me and My words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given to you. John 15:7 (NIV)
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waiting for that update....
and heartfelt congratulations to you MM!
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Praise the Lord !
This brought tears to my eyes.
May he guide you to see the best path, and do things properly.
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I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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Wow MM,
That must have been some "adult beverage". lol
I was going to wait until you posted again but just couldn't. I wanted to offer my congrats to you and praise to God. And to ditto what peachy said.
Hope the beverage wears off soon. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Blessings always.
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No man likes to have his intelligence or good faith questioned, especially if he has doubts about it himself. - Henry Brooks Adams
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