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JMCW,

No offense but Chrisner needs to not only think of himself but his daughter. If she needs to talk to him for her to help herself cope (i.e. he is part of her support group and she a part of his group), then he should listen.

What they should and probably have done is bond together. Then it w/b or s/b the family against the WS. Together they are strong and the WS doesn't stand a chance. Separate, is questionable.

When children are involved we as parents do NOT want to cut off their lifeline support.

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Thank you Orchid, It took me ten times the words to say what you simply said.


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Chris,

I raise my Sippy Cup to you, mis amigo. I think you've done very well and should have no regrets.

Around here, there's no question that you are a huge asset. You provide way more support than you take for yourself and always brighten everyone's day. I always look forward to your posts, and I know that everyone else feels the sameway.

Salud.

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SD,

I will sneak a little bourbon into your Sippy Cup. Will you be in LA for the party? DD wants to know.


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Gee, I feel honored that she wants to know if I'll be there. I wouldn't miss it. And I'm looking forward to meeting you guys. Will she answer to DD19?

I don't imagine I will have my kids with me, but I haven't projected the schedule yet.

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Chris,

I just thought of something. Don't you live around Denver?
You might find this funny.
This was a very good friend of mine in high school.
Check it out.

Used to play Ping Pong at this girl's house

LOL


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44 Days Left.

My marriage is now 99.538% over. Need to make the best of the last .00462% remaining.

You can feel the rolling thunder and ground quake from the Wayzilla "Happy Dance" from here.

BC: That's cool. I have seen her a lot on the news. If you ever want to pop into Denver for a visit let me know. I have a big empty house.

Good News. A new high school head coach has contacted me and asked me to coach their freshman boy's team this year. Nice opportunity and close to home. Hopefully in a year or two I can get the same opportunity with a girl's team (sorry guys, they are smarter, more disciplined, apply more fundamentals and listen better). That's all good things if you like to coach.


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Hopefully in a year or two I can get the same opportunity with a girl's team (sorry guys, they are smarter, more disciplined, apply more fundamentals and listen better). That's all good things if you like to coach.


Right chrisner, and then they have to grow up and turn into women.....

I now have to apologize to all the nice ladies here, but this one just begged for a smart donkey comeback....


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Chrisner, what is your email? I'll send you a rough draft of my book.


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She moved away with the kids April 08. I contested it and got a lot more time with my kids. She's unhappy that I want to stay involved in their lives and don't settle for being an "every other weekend" dad.

Never going to happen.

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BC: That's cool. I have seen her a lot on the news. If you ever want to pop into Denver for a visit let me know. I have a big empty house.

Do yall have a Buffalo Wild Wings?

I'm sure yall at least have hooters.

I do want to take DS skiing some day. I've only been twice, but I am king of the bunny slope.

We also went to Pikes Peak a few times growing up. I'd like to ride the Cog rail with DS and look for the yellow bellied sap suckers.

Maybe I can get Christine to give us a tour of the studio. I've always wanted to get in front of the green screen and do the weather.

Just spending next years Christmas Bonus already.


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Hey BC,

We have a BW3 within walking distance. Also a Dave and Buster's and a Jackson's Sports Bar attached to an Ice arena. You can sit in the bar and watch hockey games below you all the time. All within a 10 minute walk.

Oh yeah, I understand we have Hooters here too but, ugh, you know I have never ever liked checked that out, you know like in person or anything. Nope. Not me.

I am serious if you are ever passing through there is a place to stay. Even the holidays would be fine. The holiday season will be a little tainted for me for a while.

Maybe I can start a Bed and Breakfast for Betrayed Spouses to compete with Infidel Hotel.

43 Days to go.


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That's Infidel HO-tel


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Hooters has good wings. I'm not much on the boobage, as I have them, and the fuss is lost on me.

I would happily take a room at that BS B&B. HUGE boxes of tissues in every room! Middle of the night scones and card games for those sleepless nights. On site counselors. The Plan B lounge, for those of us who are sorta sleeping again, but like a good glass of wine and laughter again.


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I'm not much on the boobage, as I have them, and the fuss is lost on me.

Oh yep, um, that would be like, sort of like me too yep, no doubt. Yep. No. Yep. Lost. Uh Huh. Nope. Yep. Yep.

Help BC.


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Huh, Huh - she said "boobage"

Sorry, this will probably take us into the gutter....

WW used to always say she was going to open up a restaurant for women to compete with Hooters - call it Peckers <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

I give her an A for creativity.

The fuss is not lost on me, though.....


Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids.

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What she's sayin is she used to work there.

Did you used to work there too?

It's OK, just admit it and send pics. It's the internet, nobody will see. I promise.


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I would happily take a room at that BS B&B. HUGE boxes of tissues in every room! Middle of the night scones and card games for those sleepless nights. On site counselors. The Plan B lounge, for those of us who are sorta sleeping again, but like a good glass of wine and laughter again.

I think you're on to something here. Complimentary spa treatment, stocked pharmacy. . . .

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Chris,

did you get my rough draft?

Let me know what you think and please be brutally honest.

BD


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DS4(Twin2)

She moved away with the kids April 08. I contested it and got a lot more time with my kids. She's unhappy that I want to stay involved in their lives and don't settle for being an "every other weekend" dad.

Never going to happen.

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BD331,

I got it. I have not had a chance to go through it yet. Lots of basketball. I will get into it the next couple evenings and let you know. Thanks. Honest is honest. Lying is brutal.


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I wanna come to the B & B too!

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