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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Mel.
I've removed that line from my post above.
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gotcha!
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Mel:
I've removed my sarcastic comment, as it probably is the right thing 2 do.
-ol' 2long
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Mel:
Sorry for the sarcasm. I let MyRev get me revved up more than I should have.
ETA: I suppose if someone really wants to know the whole story behind why that pic2re is still around, I could talk about it, but not on this thread (2 be fair, and 2 show I'm not trying 2 hide something from bp if he's interested, we could be sure 2 invite him elsewhere, if it's desired 2 create a thread around it).
-ol' 2long
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Edit:
Regarding the "pic2re", I won't be able 2 go in2 very much detail, because the discussion I had with my W about it involves an agreement between my W and DD and Son in law about the appropriateness of keeping a pic2re in their wedding album of the SIL who sued us last year.
Long, complicated, recovery-distraction (but character-building and marriage-building) discussion on its own.
-ol' 2long
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Myrev:
I moved my post about that pic2re 2 JL's new thread addressed 2 you, so as not 2 clutter up bp's thread here anymore than I already have.
regards,
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me - 47  H - 39  married 2001 DS 8a  DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy: (Why is DS7b now a blockhead???) (Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)
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Members:
There are many more moderators here now. There are rules in place with regard to harassment---and this includes verbal volleys and cheap shots back and forth. All these posts have been edited because they either incited this behavior, or were an attempt to control it.
I suggest that you all stop it. It takes us time to edit these posts. If it continues in a chronic manner, banning is the next step.
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bigpicture,
I saw your update post yesterday but can't post from work. Like Mr. W. and 2long and others I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your sharing about your success so far. Your perseverance is inspiring to many.
While your seemingly overnight change may seem unbelievable to some, I experienced something similar so I know it happens.
Keep your guard up but enjoy your new commitment to each other. It's been over a year for us and the rollercoaster has been bumpy at times, but posting here on MB and working with our tough MC have been very helpful.
Thanks,
Ace
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4 D-Days: Jun-Nov 06 E/PA~OW#2 (OW#1 2000)
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Ace, Plan B is a complete separation, usually begun with a legal separation agreement and always with a Plan B letter. The Plan B letter contains the condition that they are to be separated until all contact with the OP ends. Bigpicture simply stayed out all night [or part of a night] when he found his wife had sex with the OM again. They did not ever separate, or go through the process of plan B, so he has not done Plan B. It's not that it's unbelievable, just that he hasn't ever done it. He just stayed out all night; they never separated.
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