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I will notify the techs regarding the centering and ask them to fix it...
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funny, sugar's post is centered and writer's post is left justified. Mac users love to pick on PC users pfffffffffftt sometimes we just don't have a choice yanno. ff, I was just having fun. Surely you didn't take offence? You're a funny girl, sugar.
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Logging in on IE and Firefox with the Dell gives me centered posts.
Logging in on H's Mac w/ Firefox gives me centered posts.
With Safari, all is good.
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There must have been another blip on Saturday. It's eerily quiet again.
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Flick and I were on late last night and early this morning (we have seperate computers) and we both kept having our posts timing out. Also MB was down for such a long time, many people might not have discovered it is up and limping, err, running 
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No, there's more to it than that, lil. If you look at the times of the last few posts, there has been a few hours' gap and then more posts.
The site would not open up for me about 7 hours ago.
I do hope that people come back!
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Looking on 'active topics' I can see a gap between by lurioosi2 @ 25/10/09 03:19 AM and stillhere8126 @ 24/10/09 11:08 PM which was last night when Flick and I kept getting timed out so went to bed. After that it seems to have a flurry of activity around 5am, and then just one or two an hour. I have been on twice today and almost every single post I have writen timed out, although they somehow end up posted anyway, so I double post  I know I want my 4K post count back, but not like that 
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lurioosi2 - my blog is brokenwomen.wordpress.com
All - If you feel so inclined - please add my H and my children to your prayer list as well as me. I am begining 7 days of prayer and fasting today. My husbands hatred of me increases daily. I cant see him ever forgiving me. I do not want to lose him but fear I have - because of my actions. I can not make up for what I did or change how he feels. I can only pray that I have the stregnth to be a good mother and protect my children as best as I can. I feel as if there is a massive - out of control - semitruck heading towards them...I set it in motion...but can not stop it. I will survive if my husband divorce me...but they will be damaged...by my sin and his anger. In the last two weeks he has lashed out at his family, disowning them and lashed out at his friends and his job. He has always been an angry man, but my betrayl unleased it full force on the world. So I am praying, praying for him - that even if it means he must leave, he find peace and healing. Praying for strength and peace for me and for my children - the ultimate victems in this whole horrible event. I cant protect them and so desperately want to. I miss him so much - i miss my husband.
My five year old son asked me three times this weekend if "daddy has dumped you yet", "has daddy broken up with you yet" and "does daddy still love you?"...he heard my H calling me names and told him to be nice to mommy because he doesnt want mommy to go and get a new daddy. I have told the children that I love their father very much. That I am not leaving their father. That I hurt their father very badly and daddy is to hurt to know if he loves me or not. That this is not their fault and they should know that mommy and daddy love them with all their hearts. I dont know what else I can say.
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LOL I don't remember your piglet story. I give up.
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We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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HW, You and your family have already been added to my list of prayers..hang in there.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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thank you stillhere... I have never fasted before. I dont think this will magically make my husband love me. I do hope I can some clarity and peace of mind. Some understanding of wht I should do for my family
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Yes, I do think it can help you. I have never fasted, but i think it sounds like a good idea...It can bring you closer to god, and that can only be a good thing...I am hoping It helps bring you some peace, HW.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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he just called to say he thinks he should move out.
The constant verbal abuse and hatred and name calling makes me what to let him go.
But I love him and miss him at the same time. I want to hold him and help him heal and love him. I want to grow old with him.
If he leaves our children will be devatestated...I dont know what to do.
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UGH..IDK if I am very good at this, but I dont think he should move out if he wants to make the M work...what does he say is the reason he wants to move out?
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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he wants to move out because he hates me and I am forever ruined to him.
We spoke again - he says he wants to try and love me but cant because it gives me the opportunity to hurt him again. So he should just leave so I wont hurt him again.
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Did he really say he hates you and you are forever ruined to him?
This is just pure anger..I also said some pretty rotten thing to my WH when I first found out, but I still love him to this day...
Yes he wont trust you, probably for a long time...that is normal. And its normal for him to be afraid of being hurt again. This just happened in June, right? The wounds are still very fresh, so he is in a lot of pain...
Does he read the MB stuff at all..are you working on R the MB way? If not you should be. Get the books and have him read them. His needs and her needs, and surviving an affair are good ones to start...He needs to know what he is feeling is perfectly normal, but that your M can be Recovered and better than before. If that is what he wants.
Maybe this will show him how much you are willing to do to save your M. I just think if he leaves, it wont be impossible for R, but I think it makes it that much harder...
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BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Actually HW, do you think he would post on here? Maybe some BS could help him...
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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he wont read books, he wont post on here and he says he doesnt care what other people think or say (to quote him)...i think i need to stop posting. I do worry he will find the MB site and my thoughts. I am tired of being scared allthe time. Of letting fear dominate my life. Fear I will hurt him with a thoughtless word. Fear of his words in anger out of the blue, fear he will leave and hurt the children, fear he will stay and never love me again. So much fear. fear we will never be happy again.
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Oh, I am so sorry HW...I am gonna go think about this and Ill post to you tommorrow. I would worry about you if you didnt post anymore though, you are goin thru so much right now.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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