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Yeah, she KNEW there was no turning back w/ that "BEST SEX EVER BS!" That comment is UNFORGIVEABLE. You do understand it was also a lie don't you? 1. They weren't having sex because OM was panicking. 2. The sex more than likely sucked.
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She called and wants to do a non confrontational, no conversation about affair dinner???? Yeah, see what the B's do when their MAN backhands them? No, your calendar is full, she can check back in a few days. Make that B sweat. Her OM is probably already dumping her. MAKE HER HIT ROCK BOTTOM. DOn't save her yet or she will betray you AGAIN down the road...DUDE
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Ask WW what for. To tell you why SF with the OM is the best ever.
I'm even venting for you.
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Yeah, she KNEW there was no turning back w/ that "BEST SEX EVER BS!" That comment is UNFORGIVEABLE. You do understand it was also a lie don't you? 1. They weren't having sex because OM was pancaking. 2. The sex more than likely sucked. Matters not of whether is true! ITS MATTERS THAT SHE WAS WILLING TO SAY IT! What MAN could take something like that and then say, hmmm, ok, come back home and everything will be fine. She crossed the LINE of no return. DUDE
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She called and wants to do a non confrontational, no conversation about affair dinner???? She's trying to get you back into the submissive husband role. Make sure your next conversation isn't a nicey-nice sit down just the two of you. Get a mediator to observe that the rules of the game are followed. She wants control back. She is not in a place to lay down conditions for any interaction. I'd just reply back. "NOT HUNGRY"
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She called and wants to do a non confrontational, no conversation about affair dinner???? A perfect opportunity to give her the Plan B letter. BEFORE dinner. Then you walk away.
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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She called and wants to do a non confrontational, no conversation about affair dinner???? No
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She may poison you. Insist on a food taster.
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I would bet they was pounding each other!!!! People with morals like that dont care what is going on hundreds of miles away and also he s not married so he will tell her what ever she needs to pound out his satifaction then send her on the way untill the next chance to pound again. Whats its going to cost him her company pays everthing!!!!!!!!!!!!Send her to him perminently, Step up your game and catch a throphy
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She called and wants to do a non confrontational, no conversation about affair dinner???? A perfect opportunity to give her the Plan B letter. BEFORE dinner. Then you walk away. No, NO PLAN B,ITS TIME FOR PLAN (D)UDE!!!!!!!!! She CROSSED THE LINE! That M is OVER! DUDE
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Ask WW what for. To tell you why SF with the OM is the best ever.
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No, NO PLAN B,ITS TIME FOR PLAN (D)UDE!!!!!!!!! She CROSSED THE LINE! That M is OVER! DUDE *I* am in Plan D, Dude. It includes the darkest Plan B one can imagine.
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She may poison you. Insist on a food taster. 
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Let me be clearer:
Agree to the dinner. Arrange to meet there.
Show up well-dressed, shaved and combed. Check for booby traps and sneak attacks.
Calmly hand her the Plan B letter.
Turn around and walk away.
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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Seriously, though, if you think you may consider saving the marriage, just be polite, take the high road, and say 'no thank you.'
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What is the plan b letter? Move out?
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She may poison you. Insist on a food taster. OR WORSE, she may REALLY HATE you and change all your SCREEN NAMES at all your favorites sites to ZELMO!! Thats horrid and noone deserves that! hehe DUDE
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ITS MATTERS THAT SHE WAS WILLING TO SAY IT! Simply the tantrums of a little child. What MAN could take something like that and then say, hmmm, ok, come back home. A man who is sexually confident in himself and his ability's. And knows how crazy a WW will act. Don't get me wrong. That was a horrible, terrible thing to say. But it just wouldn't bother me because I know It's not true.
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What is the plan b letter? Move out? DON'T MOVE OUT!! Go to your lawyers office MANANA! DUDE
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