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There is nothing wrong in that you feel this way in my opinion tek. It would drive me buggy if it was me
Me 56 Former BS Widowed 5-17-09 --married 25 years. 4 children DS-35 previous marriage--18-22 DGrandSons 6 and 4 Me former BS DD-29 with DGDs 5 and 1yr DSs 26 and 23 Teilhard de Chardin..“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.” ...Sounds about right to me.
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Me 56 Former BS Widowed 5-17-09 --married 25 years. 4 children DS-35 previous marriage--18-22 DGrandSons 6 and 4 Me former BS DD-29 with DGDs 5 and 1yr DSs 26 and 23 Teilhard de Chardin..“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.” ...Sounds about right to me.
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I have been taking time away from my own problems and reading other postings. I have shared some of my knowledge and experience in an effort to help others through their hard times.
Things are about the same with my m. My h will participate in mb stuff when I ask. But he doesn't take the initiative. It seems like I am the only one in this m willing to actively work on making it better.
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Tek: Men most often want their wife to be the leader in relationship stuff, mistakenly believing that women are are always better at it than they are. So lead.  Larry
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Thanks for the advise. I'll remember that. I have somehting pressing I want some advise on, but I've got to get some work done. I will post to you later.
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Tek: Men most often want their wife to be the leader in relationship stuff, mistakenly believing that women are are always better at it than they are. So lead. Larry Yes good advice and its to bad so many men don't realize how much they can lead either. Its the smart men who realize that the emotional discomfort thier wives experiance should be the primary place they attend to in providing for them. Good to hear from ya Tek
Me 56 Former BS Widowed 5-17-09 --married 25 years. 4 children DS-35 previous marriage--18-22 DGrandSons 6 and 4 Me former BS DD-29 with DGDs 5 and 1yr DSs 26 and 23 Teilhard de Chardin..“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.” ...Sounds about right to me.
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