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Aside to MissLoonieScott:
You're really a quick study grasshopper.  When posting to newbies, if they refuse to READ the effin' MB concepts, I start answering their questions with "You first" or "What do you think?". Lazy people can never muster the rigours of marriage recovery anyway. (I changed it from the American rigors, just for you)
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Thanx, for both the praise and the changing of the American for me.  I am doing what I can. I didn't even start posting until a couple of weeks after I arrived on these fine doorsteps. I'm a SLOW reader. HEHEHEHEHE
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I made the sig line! 
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I made the sig line!
I like it because it is both vague and vaguer.
Depends on which loonie we're talkin'bout !
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Scotty what is going on now? Is your H still living with the OW?
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Oh my goodness, I just have to share how much I love the loonies! That is as great idea to drop those in a jar for your thoughts... wonder if I should do that every time I think of FOW... 
For that, you need a "spit jar".
OMG! Awesome!!!!!! .. ok, I'm so done hijacking this forum....
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I am not a mistake. - ABR
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Scotty what is going on now? Is your H still living with the OW? Nothing has changed in my sitch Nova. My WH is still living with POSOW(well on Sunday he was Teeheee). I don't really see a change to my sitch for a while. (No Pep, that one doesn't count either :P ). I am sure that if my sitch changes, it will be plastered all over this thread. HEHEHEHE
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I made the sig line!
I like it because it is both vague and vaguer.
Depends on which loonie we're talkin'bout !
Why do you think I picked Loonies HEHEHEHEHE
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I am up to 15 dollars now, pesky friends asking me about things and mentioning things that send my mind spinning. HEHEHEHE This is only the first day. I am going to need a job just to cover the jar TeeeHEEEEE
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Aw, heck! Maybe you need to just call up your WH and tell him, "Get yo' @$$ home right now, cuz I can't afford to fill up the pickle jar with loonies!"  Just kidding....he'd probably think YOU were the loonie one instead of him! LOL!
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
BW M 44 yrs to still-foggy but now-faithful WH. What/how I post=my biz. Report any perceived violations to the Mods.
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Last edited by Scotland; 04/13/10 05:03 PM.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I love the Loonie Pickle Jar. I think I will do this, too! You all are awesome!
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WH - 45
2 DDs
Married 20 years, together 25
DDay Spring 2009
WH moves out Summer 2009 and in with OW
Plan A - 4 months
Very dark Plan B Fall 2009
WH files D Summer 2010
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I was watching LOST and I heard Locke say something that I thought kind of summed up Plan B. "There is a difference between doing nothing and waiting. This is waiting."
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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That is how I feel, like I am just waiting. Great analogy.
I did start reading Mimi's thread, got to page 10 so far - I am not doing too bad in plan B. Thanks for bumping that to me.
Hope you had a great day today!
Me:BW
Dday:12/31/09-Found MB 01/03/10
3DstepChildren24&20
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PlanB:03/25/10
D final 11/15/10
"I dare you to find some time and some place to be silent for longer than usual; a few moments, a few minutes, a few hours. Listen to your heart, listen to your soul; and most importantly, listen to the silence to see what it sounds like and how it speaks to you."
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NP, It was bumped to me at one point too. I think it was Not(I could MOST definitely be WRONG). It was WELL worth the read. She is a strong lady. I hope to meet her on these boards one day and tell her THANX.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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There are so many on here that I would love to meet one day. You are all an inspiration to me, whether you have recovered your M or not. I hope to be like Mimi and Sexy Mama Bear (minus her personal A). Both are simply amazing stories. If they can do it, there is hope for all of us!
Ontario isn't that far from me, Scotty...though I guess that would now require a passport, which I do not have.
I have seen pictures somewhere on the forums of little groups of people who have met each other. I can't seem to find them since the great crash last year, but it seems like sometimes, people do get to meet each other.
BW (me - 45)
WH - 45
2 DDs
Married 20 years, together 25
DDay Spring 2009
WH moves out Summer 2009 and in with OW
Plan A - 4 months
Very dark Plan B Fall 2009
WH files D Summer 2010
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I'm feeling an Olive Branch Moment coming on... Tape a loonie to your card, maybe with a little note like, "I put one of these in a jar every time I think about you. Hurry home before I go broke!  " which loonie?
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(Hopefully context made it clear which loonie should be taped to the card.)
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I've only met one person from MB IRL, but have spoken to some very stellar folks on the phone. 
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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I'm sure plenty of people wonder why I keep muttering, "drop the loonie," and then snicker.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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