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Chidiot Catchphrases I've got too much spare time on my hands. I thought I'd make a blog detailing all the crap waywards spew. Feel free to contribute. This is all I can really give, as I'm not married nor have I gone through an infidelity one way or another. So...enjoy. My hope is to condense all wayward phrases in an attempt to give you all: 1. A place to go to laugh at wayward crap 2. A list of what is said for new people so they know all waywards say this junk. Feel free to post here too, if you like.  Preferably with things you were personally told. P.S. Chidiots = cheating idiots.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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Also, I've gone back to check out the previous boards on waywardism, and I would like to seek permission to use some of the phrases BS's were told by their WS's before I actually DO post them. Wouldn't want to post something from someone and then have to take it right back down after all. Hope you enjoy the three that are already up there right now. 
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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"Me leaving and/or the breakup of our M has NOTHING to do with OW"
"She/he is just a friend."
Offhand these are just two of the beauts that I heard.
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Oh and you have my permission, if you need it.
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What do you want me to put as your name in the entries? "Still"?
And thanks. I like to have permission, so no one gets mad.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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Yeah, Still is perfectly fine, karma. This is a great idea.
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I thought I could do SOMETHING to help you all, and keep all the stupid wayward fog-talk in one place. For easy reference.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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You have my permission and you can call me whatever you like. Tehehehe
I dunno if I posted this one on one of the threads before but here goes. Right after ILYBNILWY speech, we were talking about our feelings. I asked, "Have you ever had an interest in another woman sexually." WH replied, "Yes, but not until recently and that scared me. Don't think I want to stay together and have sex with other women though." My response, "Oh don't worry, I'm NOT okay with THAT." Wayturds. Keep in mind I didn't KNOW that he was alrady sleeping with POSOW. DUHHHHHH
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Posted yours. I had to mod a few things to make it appropriate but I hope otherwise it fits for you.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I just hope to do a good job of it...
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One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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OMG! LOVE IT!!! Keep it up!
Hrm, lets see what I got. How about "I only married you for security", "You're the one who wanted a child, not me," (and mind you, I remember having tons of discussions about kids, adoption, etc...), "I can never be happy with you," "OP is so easy to talk to, not like you."
That should keep ya busy!
*Feel free to credit to AnnaBelle, no worries.
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Posted one of yours, but I have to be going (work), I'll put some more up later.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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"I don't lie all of the time"
"I only married you so I wouldn't be a burden on my family anymore"
"I was too young, I didn't know what love was"
"The OMW has mental problems and is psycho and will probably kill our children if she finds out about the affair"
"You shouldn't have to work on being in love, it should just be there"
Me BH 40
Her XWW 34
Married 12 years
Feb 09 - PA #1 (w/married alcoholic)
Apr 09 - Started recovery, thought things were going well until...
Jan 10 - PA #2 (w/different guy on Facebook)
Dec 10 - Divorced
Now - very happy; no regrets
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"You shouldn't have to work on being in love, it should just be there" Ohh, I got a similar version of that one too!
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Annabelle...I also got the "youre the only one who wanted a child" one too, thats a good one. The funny thing is we tried for two years before I finally got pregnant. Ahhh, I think during that time he coulda told me he didnt want a child..stupid, stupid, stupid.
I also got..."You tricked me into marrying you.".....Uhhhh, we went out for six years before we got married, how did I trick you. He asked me to marry him, not the other way around.
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Oh, and you gotta put the "Shes a good person." OW that is....I got that one... 
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Oh, I've got one more... "I got back in contact with OW (after dumping her) to see where things are going, as friends or more)." That was after a week of reconciliation...
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